Stop Being a Pessimist and Start Living Your Best Life

Tanosei
5 min readJun 26, 2023

Pessimism is a slow poison one possesses. It’s not always wrong, but it’s not usually right either. Pessimism only works if you already know that the outcome will be bad. It’s like you already knew you’ll fail your exams because you didn’t write anything.

People who are super pessimistic often have already lost everything, and they think there’s nothing they can do. They know it’s almost impossible to complete that graduation because you’ve more than 12+ backlogs.

Optimism is not about thinking that only good things will happen to you. It’s not about whether you’ll pass that exam with some miracle, but rather it’s about believing that even without a college degree, you can make your life better.

Let’s talk about my experience with Pessmism

Many people don’t fully grasp the laws of nature and time. They don’t realize that after every dark night, there’s a brighter day. This lack of understanding often leads to pessimism, especially when they’ve lost hope in their lives.

For instance, my father is the biggest pessimist I’ve ever known. He only believes in fate and doesn’t have much hope for my future. Growing up, I constantly heard him and other relatives say things like, “he won’t amount to anything,” “he doesn’t know…

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